{"id":663,"date":"2024-10-19T22:24:15","date_gmt":"2024-10-19T22:24:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/justcareforall.life\/?page_id=663"},"modified":"2026-03-19T22:20:01","modified_gmt":"2026-03-19T22:20:01","slug":"chapter-4-eyes","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/justcareforall.life\/?page_id=663","title":{"rendered":"Chapter 4, Peering Eyes"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Our Past: Rupturia<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t
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\u00a0<\/p>

Underneath, suspended in the goo of time,<\/p>

Finally, finally resigned from time,<\/p>

About to be forgotten by time.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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For we are born in other’s pain,<\/p>\n

 and perish in our own.<\/p>\n

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There is no better than adversity.<\/p>\n

Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss<\/p>\n

Contains its own seed, its own lesson<\/p>\n

On how to improve your performance<\/p>\n

The next time.<\/p>\n

–Malcom X. 1925-1965.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Exceed.<\/p>\n

We are not<\/p>\n

our circumstances<\/p>\n

but what we do with them.<\/p>\n

The conflicts strengthen us.<\/p>\n

They prepare us for our victories.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Say what<\/i>? From far above me,<\/p>

These broken bones ‘n cuts<\/p>

look like victory<\/i> to you?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Our greatest glory is not never falling,<\/p>\n

but rising every time we fail.<\/p>\n

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It is not death or pain that is to be dreaded,<\/p>\n

but fear of pain or death.<\/p>\n

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Building skills,<\/p>\n

increasing endurance;<\/p>\n

practice and preparation.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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My past was practice? Practice for WHAT<\/i>?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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For what follows the past.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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It is a long time past practicing; time for sinking.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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The source of your strength is your injury.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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The source of my stregnth … are you CRAZY<\/em>?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Indeed.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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\u00a0<\/p>

Surrender comes when you no longer ask,<\/p>

“Why is this happening to me?”<\/p>

Acceptance of the unacceptable is the\u00a0<\/p>

greatest source of grace in this world.<\/p>

–Eckhart Tolle. Born 1948.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Indeed. Surrender your pain, not your, ‘self.’<\/p>\n

Fear of pain is the antagonist of growth.<\/p>\n

It is the antithesis of prosperity.<\/p>\n

It is the eliminator of strength.<\/p>\n

It is the annihilator o<\/i><\/span>f ‘self.<\/i><\/span>‘<\/span>  <\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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If you feel pain, face it.<\/span><\/p>

Move through it by going inside it,<\/p>

turn it inside-out and push beyond it.<\/p>

It is stagnant, you are not.<\/p>

You compress it, not it, you.<\/p>

Convert your pain to the high-octane<\/p>

fuel to compel compassionate change.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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When something bad happens,<\/p>\n

you have three choices.<\/p>\n

You can either let it define you,<\/p>\n

let it destroy you,<\/p>\n

Or, you can let it strengthen you.<\/p>\n

–Dr. Seuss. 1904-1991<\/p>\n

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Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement.<\/p>\n

Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.<\/p>\n

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You! The sea of eyes floating over me,<\/p>

Wavering ‘n flickering in the choppy waters,<\/p>

like those millions behind the millions of masks,<\/p>

You are really, really, really annoying. Go away.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Begs the question, yes?\u00a0<\/em><\/p>

‘What\u00a0lies behind those eyes?’<\/span><\/em><\/p>

Compassion, ambition,<\/em><\/p>

creativity, altruism, charity,\u00a0<\/em><\/p>

advocacy, courage to change?<\/em><\/p>

Resilience? Strength to love?<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Always eyes watching you and the voice enveloping you.<\/p>\n

Asleep or awake, indoors or out of doors,<\/p>\n

in the bath or bed–no escape.<\/p>\n

Nothing was your own except the few cubic centimeters in your skull.<\/p>\n

–George Orwell, 1984. 1903-1950<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Don’t be disturbed by emotions<\/p>\n

like anger, envy, resentment.<\/p>\n

These just zap energy<\/p>\n

and waste time.<\/p>\n

–Justice Ruth Bader Ginsberg. 1933-2020.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Provided anonymity fostered<\/em><\/p>

Aggression ‘n suspicion, in ’em,<\/em><\/p>

Against anyone not conforming.<\/em><\/p>

Against anyone assessed a threat.<\/em><\/p>

Against anyone perceived as, ‘Other.’<\/em><\/p>

The deadlier human-created contagion,<\/em><\/p>

Fear-driven-cruelty, was then transferred.<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Arch beyond the zone of comfort.<\/p>\n

Cross over this insane division of pain.<\/p>\n

Bridge the gruesome gorge of Animosity.<\/p>\n

It is wider than the mighty Mississippi,<\/p>\n

It is stronger than the powerful Colorado,<\/p>\n

It is more treacherous than the sinuous Snake.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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We live in a world in which we need to<\/p>\n

share responsibility, It’s easy to say,<\/p>\n

‘It’s not my child, not my community, <\/p>\n

not my world, not my problem.’<\/p>\n

Then there are those who see the need and respond.<\/p>\n

I consider those people my heroes.<\/p>\n

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In a society that functions optimally, those who can\u00a0<\/p>

should naturally want to provide for those who can’t.<\/p>

That’s how it’s designed to work.\u00a0<\/p>

I truly believe\u00a0we’re here to take care of one another.<\/span><\/p>

–LeVar Burton. Born 1957.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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We face devasation<\/p>

in this 400-year flood;<\/p>

its undertow will drag us all down;<\/p>

we will drown in our meanness<\/p>

and sink forever deeper<\/p>

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Your courage is the mask against that virus.<\/p>

Without y<\/span>our courage and strength, we are weaker.<\/p>

Without you, we are all a little less alive,\u00a0<\/p>

a little more dead.<\/p>

Without your contributions,\u00a0<\/p>

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Ignorance and lack of courage<\/p>\n

only give rise to fear.<\/p>\n

–Sachin Ramdas Bharativa<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Harlem<\/p>

What happens to a dream deferred?<\/p>

Does it dry up<\/p>

Like a raisin in the sun?<\/p>

Or fester like a sore<\/p>

And then run?<\/p>

Does it stink like rotten meat?<\/p>

Or crust and sugar over–<\/p>

Like syrup sweet?<\/p>

Maybe it just sags<\/p>

Like a heavy load<\/p>

Or does it just explode?<\/p>

–Lanston Hughes, 1951. 1901-1967.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Above the water line, two distinguishable<\/p>\n

small spots of light, peered down at me.<\/p>\n

They drew me as much as her words.<\/p>\n

I ascended, swam toward them.<\/p>\n

Burst through the surface.<\/p>\n

Swam toward land.<\/p>\n

Lurched to shore.<\/p>\n

Collapsed to my knees.<\/p>\n

Grabbed fists of sand.<\/p>\n

Looked up to see feet.<\/p>\n

Endless rows of feet <\/p>\n

stood before me.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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I rose to defend my life<\/p>\n

as the sand ran between <\/p>\n

the fingers of my double-clenched hour-glasses.<\/p>\n

I stood my ground, spun around, looked up ‘n down.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Stand your ground, own your truth<\/p>\n

and live your life peacefully.<\/p>\n

–Elizabeth Griswold<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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The ground of fearlessness is fear.<\/p>\n

In order to be fearless, <\/p>

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–Larry Rosenberg. Born 1932.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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I decried, Not like this!<\/p>\n

Not going out like this!<\/p>\n

You want me, you got me!<\/p>\n

Here I am–Come on!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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So came their Second Gift:<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Courage to See More.<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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You are free to see more<\/p>

than the corpreal.<\/p>

Free to dream; not of ‘better.’<\/span><\/p>

Better is no longer\u00a0a dream\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

separated from being.<\/span><\/p>

Not in our land, not amongst us.<\/p>

It is already here.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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The  reality is this:<\/p>

If we don’t make time to close our eyes, <\/p>

breathe deeply,<\/p>\n

push beyond the binds we’re in, <\/p>\n

and visualize a day when they don’t exist,<\/p>\n

we can never truly be free.<\/p>\n

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If you are an LGBT+ person and you come out,<\/p>\n

you have to go through your knight’s quest <\/p>\n

to create ground for yourself, to stand there and say,<\/p>\n

‘I exist. I have no reason to feel guilt or shame.<\/p>\n

I am proud to exist, and while I’m not perfect,<\/p>\n

I deserve to exist in society just like anyone else.<\/p>\n

–Suzzie Eddie Izzard. Born 1962.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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When emptied, he walked toward us.<\/em><\/p>\n

We parted, opened our lines for his entry.<\/em><\/p>\n

From that moment, by his courage, we grew by one. <\/em><\/p>\n

We brought him in and sealed our lines; <\/em><\/p>

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Our Past: Rupturia Chapter 4: Peering Eyes See Beyond: Be Free to Dream–Do Not Succumb–Exceed \u00a0 Underneath, suspended in the goo of time, Finally, finally resigned from time, About to be forgotten by time. For we are born in other’s pain,  and perish in our own. –Francis Thompson. 1859-1907. There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss Contains its own seed, its own lesson On how to improve your performance The next time. –Malcom X. 1925-1965. Exceed. We are not our circumstances but what we do with them. The conflicts strengthen us. They prepare us for our victories. \u00a0 Say what? From far above me, These broken bones ‘n cuts look like victory to you? Our greatest glory is not never falling, but rising every time we fail. –Confucius. 551-479BC. It is not death or pain that is to be dreaded, but fear of pain or death. –Epictetus. 50-135AD. Building skills, increasing endurance; practice and preparation. My past was practice? Practice for WHAT? For what follows the past. It is a long time past practicing; time for sinking. The source of your strength is your injury. The source of my stregnth … are you CRAZY? \u00a0 Indeed. \u00a0 Surrender comes when you no longer ask, “Why is this happening to me?” Acceptance of the unacceptable is the\u00a0 greatest source of grace in this world. –Eckhart Tolle. Born 1948. Indeed. Surrender your pain, not your, ‘self.’ Fear of pain is the antagonist of growth. It is the antithesis of prosperity. It is the eliminator of strength. It is the annihilator of ‘self.‘   \u00a0 If you feel pain, face it. Move through it by going inside it, turn it inside-out and push beyond it. It is stagnant, you are not. You compress it, not it, you. Convert your pain to the high-octane fuel to compel compassionate change. When something bad happens, you have three choices. You can either let it define you, let it destroy you, Or, you can let it strengthen you. –Dr. Seuss. 1904-1991 Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence. –Hellen Keller. 1880-1968. You! The sea of eyes floating over me, Wavering ‘n flickering in the choppy waters, like those millions behind the millions of masks, You are really, really, really annoying. Go away. Begs the question, yes?\u00a0 ‘What\u00a0lies behind those eyes?’ Compassion, ambition, creativity, altruism, charity,\u00a0 advocacy, courage to change? Resilience? Strength to love? Always eyes watching you and the voice enveloping you. Asleep or awake, indoors or out of doors, in the bath or bed–no escape. Nothing was your own except the few cubic centimeters in your skull. –George Orwell, 1984. 1903-1950 Don’t be disturbed by emotions like anger, envy, resentment. These just zap energy and waste time. –Justice Ruth Bader Ginsberg. 1933-2020. Provided anonymity fostered Aggression ‘n suspicion, in ’em, Against anyone not conforming. Against anyone assessed a threat. Against anyone perceived as, ‘Other.’ The deadlier human-created contagion, Fear-driven-cruelty, was then transferred. Arch beyond the zone of comfort. Cross over this insane division of pain. Bridge the gruesome gorge of Animosity. It is wider than the mighty Mississippi, It is stronger than the powerful Colorado, It is more treacherous than the sinuous Snake. We live in a world in which we need to share responsibility, It’s easy to say, ‘It’s not my child, not my community,  not my world, not my problem.’ Then there are those who see the need and respond. I consider those people my heroes. –Fred ‘Mr.’ Rogers. 1928-2003. \u00a0 In a society that functions optimally, those who can\u00a0 should naturally want to provide for those who can’t. That’s how it’s designed to work.\u00a0 I truly believe\u00a0we’re here to take care of one another. –LeVar Burton. Born 1957. We face devasation in this 400-year flood; its undertow will drag us all down; we will drown in our meanness and sink forever deeper in the muck of cowardice. Your courage is the mask against that virus. Without your courage and strength, we are weaker. Without you, we are all a little less alive,\u00a0 a little more dead. Without your contributions,\u00a0 we are\u00a0deprived of our potential. Ignorance and lack of courage only give rise to fear. –Sachin Ramdas Bharativa \u00a0 Harlem What happens to a dream deferred? Does it dry up Like a raisin in the sun? Or fester like a sore And then run? Does it stink like rotten meat? Or crust and sugar over– Like syrup sweet? Maybe it just sags Like a heavy load Or does it just explode? –Lanston Hughes, 1951. 1901-1967. Above the water line, two distinguishable small spots of light, peered down at me. They drew me as much as her words. I ascended, swam toward them. Burst through the surface. Swam toward land. Lurched to shore. Collapsed to my knees. Grabbed fists of sand. Looked up to see feet. Endless rows of feet  stood before me. I rose to defend my life as the sand ran between  the fingers of my double-clenched hour-glasses. I stood my ground, spun around, looked up ‘n down. Stand your ground, own your truth and live your life peacefully. –Elizabeth Griswold The ground of fearlessness is fear. In order to be fearless,  you have to stand in the middle of your fear. –Larry Rosenberg. Born 1932. I decried, Not like this! Not going out like this! You want me, you got me! Here I am–Come on! So came their Second Gift: Courage to See More. \u00a0 You are free to see more than the corpreal. Free to dream; not of ‘better.’ Better is no longer\u00a0a dream\u00a0 separated from being. Not in our land, not amongst us. It is already here. The  reality is this: If we don’t make time to close our eyes,  breathe deeply, push beyond the binds we’re in,  and visualize a day when they don’t exist, we can never truly be free. –Akiba Solomon & Kenrya Rankin If you are an LGBT+ person and you come out,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"ocean_post_layout":"","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"","ocean_second_sidebar":"","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"","ocean_custom_header_template":"","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"","footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-663","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/justcareforall.life\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/663","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/justcareforall.life\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/justcareforall.life\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/justcareforall.life\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/justcareforall.life\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=663"}],"version-history":[{"count":152,"href":"https:\/\/justcareforall.life\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/663\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5303,"href":"https:\/\/justcareforall.life\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/663\/revisions\/5303"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/justcareforall.life\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=663"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}